We hold an annual service of remembering in November when we remember particularly all those who have died in the preceding year. Many find this service helpful and details will appear in the autumn on our news pages.


Some more information in a time of bereavement is available here.

You may find the Light a Candle website helpful.

There are church regulations regarding the Interment of Ashes regulations (including the size of plots and floral decoration). The file also shows the appropriate fees. Click here for details.

If you would like to leave a bequest for the work of the church here in Selly Oak, all donations would be most gratefully received.

Our bank details are:

PCC St Mary’s Church Selly Oak

HSBC Account number: 41565818

Sort code: 40-11-20

We have a preferred stonemason whose company knows what is required. The preferred stonemason is:


Bellamy Waterhouse & Co

Porters Way

Bordesley Green


B9 5RR

0121 7710747